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No rights for children and grandparents

February 2009

Headlines over the last 7 days record Social Services in the UK as having deemed grandparents of only 46 and 59 years of age too old to look after their grandchildren. Despite the children wanting to live with their grandparents, they were placed for adoption with a gay couple.

In 2008, seven national organisations wrote to the Government calling for legal rights to be granted to grandparents to ensure their involvement when children of the family are placed in care or put up for adoption. The extended family currently has no legal rights in these circumstances. The Government never replied.

This latest news story comes as no surprise to the organisations that campaign for children's rights to family life in the UK.

In March 2008, a Parliamentary Early Day Motion (EDM1199) called on Members of Parliament to support a change in the law. The EDM read:

'That this House believes that a child's right to family life requires greater legislative protection; further believes that there should be an expectation that ancestors and close biological relatives become parties to Family Court cases on request; further believes there should be financial support for kinship carers; further believes that biological relatives including fathers without parental responsibility, grandparents, aunts and uncles should be automatically notified of care and adoption proceedings; and calls upon the Government to respond positively to the proposals from the charities announced on 17th March in the document Grandparents' Rights - A Response to the Government.'

Of the 646 MPs, only 53 expressed their support. Sadly, it appears that 'This house does not believe that a child has a right to family life'.

The grandparents in this latest case lacked the financial resources to take on the might of Social Services. Thankfully, a millionaire benefactor has offered to fund their legal costs to assist them in their campaign to have the children remain with their biological family.

The Government refuses to respond on the issue of rights for the extended family. Given that few people now qualify for legal aid and the Government is consulting on a dramatic increase to court application fees, only the very rich will be able to afford justice, and then, only if they are fortunate to find Social Workers who understand the importance of family to children.

More information can be found at:

www.thecustodyminefield.com/21.html

The law is still failing children

October 2007

In 2006, the The Draft Children (Contact) and Adoption Bill was passed by Parliament in recognition of the significant problems posed by resident parents refusing and disrupting contact between their children and the 'contact' parent. This legislation was meant to widen the powers of the court in relation to enforcing Contact Orders but has again been delayed.Currently, the Court has limited powers to compel a resident parent to adhere to a Contact Order.

Penalties are restricted to committing the resident parent to jail, fining them, or amending the Residence Order in favour of the contact parent. A Judge is highly unlikely to fine a parent or jail them due to the adverse affect on the children of the family. Similarly, a change in residence could cause significant disruption to the children. For this reason, many children lose contact, normally with their fathers, and this affects the extent of their relationship with their grandparents and extended family.

In 2003 the President of the Family Division (the most senior Family Law Judge) said in a speech that after 2 years of separation, fathers who still have contact with their children are in a minority. The making of the Children and Adoption Act 2006 was meant to help address these difficulties. The new powers were due to come into force in October 2007.

In 2004, the Honourable Mr Justice Munby took the unusual step in making public his frustration at the Court’s inability to enforce its own orders in his summing up at the end of a case. A father had just left his Court in tears following a five year battle to see his daughter. When the Judge heard that the father felt let down by the system, Munby said:

‘He is entitled to. I can understand why he expresses that view. He has every right to express that view. In a sense it is shaming to have to say it, but I personally agree with his view. It is very, very disheartening. I am sorry there is nothing more I can do... The system has failed him.’


The negative effect on society of the 'fatherless family' is now widely recognised, and it must be stressed that mothers who are non-resident parents (NRPs) suffer many of the same difficulties as the majority of NRPs who are male.

In 2003, The Department for Education and Skills released a report entitled 'The Impact of Parental Involvement in Children’s Education' which conclusively found that children's development is impaired when both parents aren't involved.

How many parents and children are affected?

Of the fathers who divorced in 2005, more than 45,000 will have lost contact with their children by the end of this year. If you include the number of unmarried couples who separated in 2005, the numbers of those affected increase to more than 70,000 fathers and 126,000 children.

Earlier this year, the Government expressed a commitment to improve child wellbeing when the 2007 UNICEF Report showed the UK to have the unhappiest children in the developed world. It seems this objective has slipped down the political agenda.


 CHILD SUPPORT NAME AND SHAME POLICY FAILS CHILDREN

Today John Hutton proposed new ‘name and shame measures’ to penalise absent parents for non payment of child support.

The new CMEC proposals fail to consider and promote the principle of shared parenting, and provide another incentive for parents to enter the courts and battle over their children rather than reaching a consensus through mediation. Instead of promoting parental agreement (which benefits the children both financially and emotionally), the new proposals provide a further incentive for parents to fight from the outset.

The proposed naming and shaming policy cannot be used against those parents whose cases were heard in the family courts. Family law prevents there from being any form of publicity which could identify a child who has been subject to a court ruling.

Common sense dictates that parents who reached agreement over arrangements for the children are more likely to be those who financially support them, but these are the only ones who can be punished with this  policy! Only the reasonable can be punished!

What the government refuses to accept is that our current legal system promotes and increases parental hostility with its ‘winner takes all’ judgments and the awarding of sole residence as the prize. Non payment by non resident parents is undoubtedly a byproduct of this.

Is shared parenting beneficial for children and will it increase the likelihood of both parents meeting their financial commitments?

You may remember the recent UNICEF Report on Child Wellbeing that found the United Kingdom to have the unhappiest children in the developed world. Interestingly, three of the four countries that topped the child wellbeing league had shared residence as the norm following parental separation.

Sweden, among the top three, fully funds mediation, and with there being a presumption of shared residence under Swedish law, unsurprisingly 90% of Swedish parents come to an agreement without needing to go to court.

In 2002, the American Psychological Association published an article in their Journal of Family Psychology found that:

‘Children in joint custody arrangements had less behaviour and emotional problems, had higher self-esteem, better family relations and school performance than children in sole custody arrangements. And these children were as well-adjusted as intact family children on the same measures’.

It’s only a few months since the UNICEF Report was published and Labour promised they would tackle the issue of the United Kingdom’s unhappy children. We’re still waiting.

Michael Robinson - 6/6/2007